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A narcissistic spouse during a divorce is a menacing figure. This post refers to male and female narcissists. Be prepared for the revelation of an intensely ugly side of … this psyche. You feel the fury of his determination that you will lose everything: monetary assets, child custody agreements, your excellent reputation, your social connections, your living arrangements including property that you own as an individual.
The narcissist initiates an all out war against you. He knows that you will go down—he will be the triumphant winner. Winning is the only thing that the narcissist knows besides his perpetual god—-money, property, social prestige, raw power over others.
This is an extension of his extreme sense of self entitlement, grandiose inflated ego, blind ambition and lack Rocket - Def Leppard - Hysteria (DVD) a developed conscience.
Narcissists Never Play Fair; this is not part of their psychic structure. Avaricious before the divorce, the narcissistic spouse doubles down when he knows that the spoils of the marriage must be divided.
I find that the multiple cruelties perpetrated during the divorce are legion. In too many cases the narcissist gets away with stealing what rightfully belongs to you, whether it is financial assets or the time that you are allotted by law to spend with your shared children.
In many cases the narcissist pushes his argument vigorously to have his children the ultimate narcissistic supplies with him more frequently. Prepare yourself with in-depth knowledge about the true nature of the narcissistic personality. Remind yourself that you are not to blame, that you are dealing with a severe, fixed personality disorder that will not change but become more entrenched.
Practice self care religiously. Maintain a steady gaze forward— knowing that you are the keeper of the flame of truth, that you have great strength and stamina and are Satin Doll - The Three Sounds - Good Deal to lead your life on your terms.
See More. We have certain patterns that we can guess will get played out, but we also know that just when we think the narc has no more tricks up their sleeve, they throw out an even higher hurtle Annihilate To Survive - Sights Of War - Annihilate To Survive us to leap over. That is so TRUE!! I am going through this very things with my ex.
Two years since I filed on him, and still The Tide Of Life - Five Blind Boys Of Mississippi - My Desire are not done with everything. The lies are so hurtful and devastating. My daughter was killed when she was 10yrs old. This divorce is so much worse.
All the manipulation, deceit, just flat-out hate-filled vengefulness is astounding. I was so unprepared for what he would do to build himself up; or try to build himself up.
It is so hurtful!! It just keeps coming. He paid for us to have a Custody Evaluator come in and make a recommendation to the court for the custody of our children.
Well, that completely backfired on him when he was diagnosed with obsessive- compulsive disorder, histrionic, and narcissistic behaviors. Yeah, look that one up; not just one, but all three. These people just cannot stop lying.
It is so exhausting to have someone constantly telling lies to try and discredit and tear Stryper - To Hell With The Devil down. It is So. Now… if only I could protect my kids on their every-other weekend visits.
That is something I did not think all the way through when I filed on him; there is always some sort of visitation. Just gather as much information about them as you can before you leave. Keep a journal, make recordings, take pictures, etc. I did do that some, but I wish I would have gotten more. It all comes down to what you can prove. In all fairness to the judge, he only sees either of you for what? A handful of hours tops? Protect yourself with proof. Best of luck to all those out there dealing with this.
You Widecombe Fair / Weve Lived And Loved Together / The Maid Of Glenconnel - The Regimental Band Of Th not alone and you can make to the other side, stronger and better for having survived!
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Thank you! In the trenches of divorcing my narcassis abuser. The lies he tells are awful and hurtful and he gives Annihilate To Survive - Sights Of War - Annihilate To Survive zero money. It amazes me he can buy things for himself but not food for his children! I love these post so much. They truly help me. Thank you for four years of great advice, insight and guidance. I want all of you to know that even if it appears they are winning, they lost.
We can go on, rebuild, and build character and strength. We can love, feel and give of ourselves. Yes, there will be challenges but it is worth it!! You learn about people who are not very nice and you learn how great you are, inside and You - Pierre Charby - You This proved to be the best pain I ever endured.
God brought me through!! Great advice. My ex npd wife has a diseased black soul. She had the same job for many years and to the outside world she is a beautiful soul who was married to a bum.
Being married to her was horrable, being separated was a horrable ride on the covert abusive train, she made access a nightmare, as long as she had total control of the access, she was okay, as okay as an npd can get. The scale of nice starts at mean. When I stood up to her, a look came on her face, her eyes got as big Flo Fashion (Instrumental) - Sway - This Is My Promo (Volume 1 & 2) saucers, very scary.
In the past 9 months, I had to take her back to court, I was awarded great access, she met a new bf, co worker. I Annihilate To Survive - Sights Of War - Annihilate To Survive a clean heart and she provided the sex and evil manipulation.
The discard was beyond words of cruelty. Linda Martinez-Lewi: Thank you so much for your blogs, they really help a lot. He was a middle aged married man with kids at home and kept pursuing all the younger women at the office.
He called his wife an old witch, menopausal dried up shrew, basically only good for cooking, cleaning, and baking pies. He would not leave any women under 30 alone!!!! Every day he was asking sexual questions, making remarks about porn. But, he would play the good old church found God and Jesus type of guy.
He loved triangulating women and then dumping all of them. Would laugh and carry on like life was a big old joke or party without anything left to lose. Nothing or no one was immune or mattered, only seen as a means to an end. They cause some much hurt, drama, chaos, destruction yet appear to be loving, caring, which is very scary and manipulative.
Glad to be done with it all, although PTSD sucks. So great to read similar Annihilate To Survive - Sights Of War - Annihilate To Surviveparticular things that I thought only were seen by me, the ability to lie, the ability to sell themselves as perfect and to the spouse as a low value person, how easily people buy the perfect picture, the scary Big Eyes as saucers when she needs to get you back in the game, the ability and need to catch another nice person, etc.
So nice to be outside the circle now, a little bit worried about ignoring how this situation can affect my son. Thanks for sharing the space to know about NPD. Skip to content A narcissistic spouse during a divorce is a menacing figure.
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